Me Time
NEED A BREAK? MEDITATE!
By Kristyn Kusek
Meditation is a powerful way to relieve stress. It's calming because it connects us to the emotions we're cut off from during our daily routines, according to Sharon Salzberg, a teacher at the Insight Meditation Center in Barre, Mass. Skeptical? You don't need to fill a room with candles and New Age-y music to do it. And ten minutes a day is enough time to reap the rewards.
Here, some guidelines for a beginner's meditation practice:
Step 1 Sit comfortably with your legs crossed. It doesn't matter if you're on the couch, the floor, or even in bed. The most important thing is to keep your back
Step 2 Close your eyes and
listen to the sounds around you to quiet your mind. Try to focus your
thoughts on what you're hearing, but don't "analyze" the sounds. For
instance, when you hear the refrigerator humming, just listen. Don't
think, "That refrigerator sounds so loud."
Step 3 Concentrate on your
breath flowing in and out. Don't worry about breathing in from your
nose or out of your mouth. Just focus on feeling yourself breathing
gently.
Step 4 At this point, you'll
probably find it hard to concentrate or notice that you're lost in
thought. This is the critical moment of meditation: when you start to
trail off and get frustrated because you can't concentrate, let go of
the criticism and just go back to focusing on your breathing.
Step 5 Keep concentrating on your breathing and bring yourself back to it whenever your mind wanders. Salzberg says that the first five minutes of meditation are the hardest, because your mind is still busy. Stay with it for as long as you can -- ten minutes is great for beginners, but keep going for as long as you like. As the time slips by, you'll eventually find that you feel calmer and more connected to your body and mind.
Says Salzberg, "Do this every day. Stopping for a few minutes to connect with yourself will make you feel wonderful."
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